Listen to what you have internalized throughout your growing up years. It reveals itself slowly to us. You will find it in your immediate reaction to the news that some one with a demanding job is getting married. Or has become pregnant. Or has quit. Pay attention to the immediate assumptions and judgments that our mind tends to make about others.
Trapped
don’t undress my love
you might find a mannequin:
don’t undress the mannequin
you might find
my love.
–Charles Bukowski
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